Living by my pen...

2012-01-31T15:00:00.006-07:00

It's amazing all the pressures facing people these days. I don't know of a single person that doesn't have something really big going on in their lives right now. Whether it's losing a job, losing their house, major health issues, or mega-problems with a child, the list goes on and on.

Sometimes it takes courage to stick your head outside the door. Fear of what is coming down the pike is frightening. There is just so much fear, sadness, and stress, it's a wonder we can function at all.

But then, I'm reminded again and again, of hope, love, and friendship.

I see hope in the eyes of a child, in the visit of a friend, or the care of family members. Sometimes, I even find hope at the end of a horrible day, in looking forward to the start of a brand new day.

Love is in the gentle touch and understanding nod of a spouse. Tears shed with a friend, sister, brother, parents, or children. It's felt when the tiniest of tokens, gifts, or hugs are given.

Even the smile from a stranger can make a difference in renewing a sad spirit.

Where will you find hope, love, friendship, re-newness of peace within yourself?

Who will you touch today? Whose burden will you lift, even with the smallest act? If it's one thing I have learned over the years, we are all in this together. We all need each other to make a difference.

And I must say... it's nice to know, I don't have to go it alone.

2011-12-15T22:12:00.003-07:00

HELLO! The Christmas Holiday is here! So, why am I still stuck in September? I swear I just put the holiday decorations away a couple of months ago. And here we are, with the sparkly lights up and blinking, the smiley snowmen nodding up and down, and the ho-ho Santas chuckling their happy cheer. Again.

I have the strongest urge to yell: Don't blink! Or you might discover that six months have whirled by, and it's now June. But whatever you do, don't double-blink or you'll be startled to find it's Christmas 2012!

HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYONE! ENJOY EVERY MOMENT YOU CAN!

2011-11-18T12:44:00.004-07:00

Can you believe it? Thanksgiving is literally around the corner. Where has the year gone? I swear as soon as June is over the holidays begin, and then it starts all over again.

This year I get to spend it with my family. Most are coming, here, for the occasion. I know that sounds daunting, but it's been a tough year for all of us, and we are really looking forward to getting together. We have such plans! I'm so excited to see everyone!

I hope all your plans are made and that you have a safe and wonderful celebration with family or with great friends. What a wonderful time to be joyful and thankful. Here's to you and yours!

2011-11-11T11:43:00.003-07:00

I just couldn't let this day pass without mentioning that it's the 11/11/11 thing. And by golly, hard to believe, I know, but when it does comes around again I just won't be here to see it.

Flags are flying all over in our neighborhood, all down the winding street. So cool! Hope everyone's 11/11/11 is a good day, one to remember.

I am also glad that this day falls on Veterans Day so that I might give thanks to all the veterans in our country. Thanks for putting your life on the line for all of us. Thanks for protecting our country. And thanks so much for all your sacrifices!

2011-11-08T10:47:00.003-07:00

Getting ready for the SCBWI Conference this weekend, which is always such a treat. If you are into writing or illustrating Children's Books, or interested in YA, you must make the organization a priority. The fee is minimal for such wonderful access to important, ongoing information in the industry.

You meet fabulous people in your area on a monthly basis, a calendar full of helpful tips at the meetings, plus the yearly conference, nearby, not to mention the truly amazing nationwide conferences that are available. If you haven't discovered this wonderful organization, do yourself a favor and check it out, find the chapter in your area. You won't be sorry.

Also, be sure and follow @SCBWI on Twitter too!

2011-10-18T15:35:00.001-06:00

I have been reading quite a few blogs lately, and discussing with fellow writers and readers, about the subject of: why isn't there a category for college age protagonists?

There are several theories that have caught my attention, one of which is, that college age students do not have the time to pick up a novel and read for pleasure. Much of their time is spent in the classroom, doing homework, working, and of course, less we forget, the all important social life.

But I was also intrigued to discover there might be other reasons, as well.

It took several years to recognize the need for a Young Adult genre, and now, slowly, it's being discovered that there might be a need for a college age genre, as well, especially with this new generation's ideas and expectations. The industry, in time, will catch up. But for now, the 18-25 fiction genre is still included in the Adult Sections of the library and bookstores.

It will be exciting, as a writer, to watch this new genre explode on the scene. Like everything else this up and coming generation takes on, I feel, the "New Adult" genre will come to fruition with gusto.

2011-07-12T22:45:00.000-06:00

This has been one of the most difficult years I have ever faced. One that has tested my very soul. First, we lost our sweet little Declan, then we lost our tiny AJ, and a dear uncle unexpectedly passed away, and now, we are in the midst of losing another, a wonderful man, our grandfather, my husband's father.

It's so difficult to watch one's children, brother's, sister's, parents, and husband grieve with so much pain, pain that I can't ease or take away.

There have been so many heart-wrenching moments, when tears were the only release. But along with all the heartache, sweet moments have trickled in: comfort from friends and family, tender memories shared, and hearts speaking to hearts without a single word spoken.

But through it all, I've been so grateful for family, for the love we have for one another, and the tight bond that has been forged between us over the years to help us endure such pain together.

I know that in time, this horrible ache will lessen, the engulfing waves will dwindle into soft ripples, and we will be filled with quiet peace. But for now, we must take the opportunity to look for each tender mercy, and be grateful for each cherished moment we were able to experience with our dear, departed, loved ones.

2011-04-28T14:37:00.002-06:00

The life of a writer is an interesting one. There are so many hours spent alone, delving in the far-reaches of one's mind, pulling, and sometimes dragging, the inner-most emotions, thoughts, and feelings of oneself to the fore so that the characters come to life on paper. It's a daunting task, but also very fulfilling.

Some days, the writing comes quickly, naturally, flowing smooth and insightful, and I have a hard time getting it all down on paper, or in the computer, fast enough. Then other days, I'm lucky if I can come up with a single line. And even then, the words sometimes end up in the trash.

But when the manuscript is finally finished, there is such a feeling of accomplishment that I can't describe it. And I'm beside myself doing the happy dance in every room of my house. I call my friends, family, and critique group, those who have encouraged me every step of the way. And that's when I realize. I'm not alone in this endeavor. They are all there for me. What would I do without them? I shudder to think. Without their encouragement, ideas, and critiques, the manuscript is just words on paper, not a novel, not a book, not even worth the paper it's written on.

Thanks doesn't seem a big enough word. But here goes, anyway:

THANK YOU, THANK YOU, THANK YOU!

2011-03-10T12:52:00.001-07:00

I love collecting fun and unusual words, and in the book "The Word Museum," by Jeffrey Karcirk, I found the greatest collection of forgotten words.

Take a look at:

Blutterbunged-- meaning: confounded, overcome by surprise. See gloppened. So, I looked up gloppened in the same book, and found: surprised. Don't you just love it?

Here's another great word:

Glunch-- meaning: to frown.

Or how about:

Maffle-- meaning: to stammer; to stutter.

And then, there's:

Snirp--- meaning: to shrink, to shrivel up.

Why have these words been lost? Wouldn't you love to have them in your repertoire, writers? I know I would!

2011-01-20T00:34:00.000-07:00

To work on my book series, blog, or twitter, that is the question after all the chores are finished and my family is happy and well. So, lately, I have chosen to use my spare, precious, minutes to work on my book series. Which is to say, of course, I have sorely neglected my blog, and my twittering has something to be desired.

I've been editing, rewriting, and rearranging each valuable chapter. And might I just add, having the time of my life. I love what is happening to my characters, how they express themselves, how they react, and what trouble they get into.

It's great fun.

But oh, how the time has flown. I no sooner sit down at my desk and start to type when, poof, it's time to quit and the day is far spent. How is that possible? I swear I've only been at the computer for ten minutes. Such a strange phenomenon, this otherworldly time-warp while writing.

So, I'm finally poking my head out of my writing room and checking in. Oh, no. It's already the middle of January... ahhh! Quick! Back to work!

2010-12-24T12:24:00.000-07:00

On this Christmas Eve, as I look back on the year and all that has happened, I am so grateful for family and friends. I don't think we could have made it without you. Thank you for all the support and kindness you have shown. May you continue to help all those in need around you and may your Christmas be the best and your New Year bright. Happy Holidays and have a very Merry Christmas.

2010-11-10T15:23:00.003-07:00

I am sorry to report that our dear, sweet, Declan was born and died on September 28th. He will forever be in our hearts as we forge on without him. Even though he was with us for such a short time, he had, and continues to have, such an impact on all those his life has touched. We love you Declan, and your wonderful mother and father, sister and brother. Love forever and always, Grandma.

2010-09-22T22:18:00.002-06:00

Wow, what a summer. If you were like me, time got away with reckless abandon.

First off, the weather was so bizarre I had to change my plans again and again, and hope that I hadn't forgotten anything, which, of course, I had--- my blog.

Secondly, I spent so many hours revising and re-writing my book that, now, it has all become a blur.

And thirdly, I had so much fun with my family that I wish I could reverse time and do it all over again.

I can hardly believe it's the end of September, with the holidays soon to follow.

Thank you, followers, for sticking with me even though I have neglected to write. You are amazing. And now, I must beg your forgiveness again, for I will be leaving soon to take care of my daughter, who is expecting her third child, and my grandchildren. It might be a while until I can write.

But in November, I am attending a wonderful conference, put on by SCBWI. So, I will be sure to let my readers know all about it.

Thank you for being so loyal!

Have a wonderful Halloween!

2010-06-10T13:36:00.003-06:00

I am going to have to slow down my blog enteries to once a month so that I can devote most of my time to the manuscript I am working on, some advice I received at the last conference I attended.

Thanks for following, and I hope you continue to do so. You are all awesome. Have a great summer!

2010-06-03T10:13:00.007-06:00

Be careful when listening to the critic in your head while you are creating. One can get so bogged down in fix-it mode that the piece may never get written, much less see the time of day.

First, listen to the creative voice and enjoy the wonderful adventure, clear to the end. Set the piece aside. Give it at least a week, maybe even a month and look at the story with new eyes. Then, and only then, should you unleash the critic inside to polish the manuscript.

You will be doing yourself a favor.

2010-05-27T14:53:00.002-06:00

There are so many wonderful writing conferences going on all the time. Make sure to take the time to figure out which ones are best for you. Who are the presenters? What will be discussed? Are the topics pertinent to your writing, your genre, etc.? How much money are you willing to fork out, and is the conference worth the expense?

One can spend so much time attending conferences that he/she can get caught up in the social aspect and forget to write, which, by the way, is most important. If the writer doesn't have the material to present, then time and money are wasted. That is not to say, that networking isn't also important. And we all need the boost that comes from interacting with others who are also on a similar path.

Balance is everything! Happy conferencing.

2010-05-20T15:00:00.002-06:00

Life lessons are sometimes harder than we think we can bear and it's tempting to crawl into a hole and stay there until we feel better. But, of course, we can't; it doesn't work that way. Life and its demands go on. And so we plug along until one day, things don't hurt so much. Time is a great healer of sorts.

Right now, I don't know of a single person that doesn't have something major happening in their lives, something that is cruel to the heart and taxing to the body and soul. My heart goes out to so many. May you feel relief soon and the love of a good friend or loved one. May each day be a little better than the last.

2010-05-11T12:20:00.002-06:00

Thanks for all the kind wishes today for my birthday. I appreciate every one of them! My wish this day goes out to all of you. I hope you have a wonderful year!

2010-05-07T11:49:00.005-06:00

In-between bouts of snow, hail, rain, and cold, I've been out enjoying the sunshine and tulips. Spring is coming, I keep telling myself as I cross my fingers, eyes, and toes.

The birds are optimistic. Ducks are checking out our yard for a place to make their nest, joined by the finches, the canaries, and of course the fat robins. What a cheerful greeting I get each time I walk out my backdoor.

I'm so excited to drag out the lawnmower, the clippers, the rake, and the edger, though I know that excitement will wear off in time, especially when it gets hot. But for now, how can I be pessimistic? The leaves are budding, dark green grass is growing, and I can see wondrous color beginning to burst. Renewed life is all around me. What an awesome sight set against the majestic white mountains and the occasional blue, blue skies.

Oh, the fresh air and the hope of a bounteous garden. I love spring and all its newness and surprises!

2010-04-20T22:51:00.001-06:00

My daughter works with the Special Olympics and special needs groups in her high school and she has made me aware of the campaign going on to replace the R-word. Please take a moment and watch these two videos, then spread the word!

2010-04-20T22:49:00.003-06:00

I came across this the other day on Youtube and had to share it. Make sure you watch it all the way through. Enjoy.

2010-04-15T10:05:00.009-06:00

Do you ever catch glimpses of movement out of the corner of your eye, turn to look, but there doesn't seem to be any cause for it? This has been happening to me, way too much lately. So today, I started paying attention to what's going on in my own backyard.

Did you know spring has finally sprung? I know it's hard to believe, given the weird weather we've all been having. I mean, I just drove through a blinding snowstorm on my way home from Phoenix, Arizona, of all places, and had to take refuge in a hotel because I couldn't see the road, let alone the cars and trucks.

As it turns out, green grass has actually pushed up from the soggy soil. Daffodils and tulips have popped out of the ground and are blooming in all their varieties and color. The trees have budded, bushes are flowering, and believe it or not, the sun is shining. Hallelujah! When did all this happen? Have I been totally oblivious, too hunkered down, too depressed by the gray skies to look out my windows, or has Mother Nature finally taken things into her own hands, taken a turn for the better? I sure hope so.

And what about all that movement I've been so paranoid about?

It's birds. Yes, birds. And not your average, run-of-the-mill, every day kinds, either.

Though they may look like ordinary birds, these are tricky. They lay in wait, taking turns to see if they can outsmart the human. These winged-creatures are "smart-alicks"! They knowingly zip in and out, beneath the patio cover, taunting me, sneering at me, gloating over the fact that they can flutter just out of my line of sight. I swear each one takes bets on who can be the most sneaky.

I have only caught them unawares a couple of times. They are huddling in the trees, conspiring. I can see it. I can hear it. They are chirping to one another, most frantically, gathering twigs, string, leaves, and the like, hiding, building blinds, etc., etc. I have a sneaking suspicion that they think, I think, they are just building nests, but I know better. I see through their cleverness. Can't you just picture it?

Who knew birds could be so smart, so speedy. Robins are in on it, black birds, canaries, and finches, plus, who knows what all else. They are all in on the conspiracy, not to mention the obnoxious woodpeckers and magpies, who deposit wonderful splotches of poop all over the patio and deck.

And if you don't believe me, just ask my husband, who goes about banging noisy contraptions, whistling and yelling at all times of the day and night, startling neighbors during their family gatherings, and startling them out of their beds in the middle of the night, not to mention their dogs and cats.

Now, I don't want to give you the wrong impression. We love birds, just not the sneaky, out-to-get-us-kind-of birds. And you would be with me on this, if you were here. Trust me!

2010-04-08T16:29:00.006-06:00

Yesterday was a day I had set aside to work on my manuscript. I was totally looking forward to the large block of time. Who wouldn't right? I had all my things laid out just so, organized, giddy with anticipation. Cracking my knuckles, I sit down to write a master piece.

But as life happens sometimes, everything went wrong and kept going wrong all day. The phone wouldn't stop its incessant ringing, though I tried to trap it in a draw with bunched pillows, forgetting the headset in the office and the one downstairs tucked in the couch. Sigh. A split-pant emergency, forgotten lunch money, unexpected friends from far away I just had to talk to. Knocks came at the door, Fed-Ex, UPS, asking for signatures. Life demanded my attention every minute. I think my computer even sighed, tired of being clamped shut so many times. So, when the nineteenth phone call came, I had had it; it was the last straw.

With only one hour left of my supposed "free day," I was tempted to ignore the ring. But the annoying thing just wouldn't stop. Argh! So, closing my laptop for the umpteenth time, I grumble all the way into the kitchen and dig the phone out of the drawer, feathers flying everywhere because of the pillows, only to find that it's my husband on caller-id. Someone I can't ignore.

Putting phone to ear, I said, "Hello," in my sweetest voice, trying not to sound irritated. But there's no answer, only noise in the background, and lots of it, machinery, men shouting, a grinding of some kind. Where in the world is my husband calling from? I wait for a second. Is he going to say anything? After all he's the one who called me. Nothing! So I assume he's accidentally touched speed dial.

"Hello," I yell. No answer. How exasperated am I at this point? Well, let's just say, you wouldn't have wanted to be in the same room with me. I yell, "Hello," again, only this time I put some umph into it. I could have shattered some eardrums. My stars, doesn't he know I'm busy? I'm not too proud of that moment to say the least, but desperation breads desperate acts.

About to hang up, I hear this tentative voice,"I'm sorry, but who am I talking to?"

Choking on my pride, shocked to hear an unrecognizable voice. I timidly say, "Who's this?" feeling embarrassment creep up my face. I have just screamed at a total stranger, not that I wouldn't have felt bad if I had broken my husband's eardrum, mind you. What must this person think of me? Typical, right?

"Ma'am," he says. "I found this phone in the road."

Now I feel like a blathering idiot. "Oh," I say in a much quieter voice, my cheeks turning Scarlett as I realize I'm going to have to meet this person face to face in order to get my husband's phone back.

But then it registers what he has just said. Road? My heart skips a beat and adrenaline threatens to rush through my body. Has my husband been in an accident? Is he all right? Now, I've added guilt, terror, and several more emotions to the pool.

I think he sensed my concern, having endured such a long pause on my end. He quickly reassures me that everything's fine and that he has rescued the phone from the pavement before any traffic can so damage to the blackberry.

So, here I am, driving down the road, a mixture of emotions bubbling around inside of me. I know, I know, another unexpected errand. And I'm wondering how my husband is possibly getting along without his phone, which is usually glued to his hip or ear. How am I supposed to get hold of him? I have no idea where he is or how long it's been since he dropped his phone.

As I draw closer to the scene, my face is getting hotter and hotter. How am I going to face this good Samaritan? Of course, bribery. He'll forgive my insolence with a few dollars. I dig in my purse. No money! Ah! Of course. Another stop. The line to the ATM is huge, moving as slow as a turtle with weights attached to its hind legs.
Finally retrieving several green bills, I pull up to a short curb and identify the kind man who has called because of all the machinery in front of the building he has described.

He doesn't even hesitate. Hurrying to his bobcat, he grabs the phone. Why is it so obvious that I am the one that has come for the dratted phone? Is it my red face, what? It still baffles me.

Anyway, he hands me the phone. I start in on my apology.

"What?" he says. A tractor has just come to life, grinding gears.

"I'm sorry," I shout as another piece of equipment growls with all its might.

The man puts a hand to his ear, a puzzled expression on his face.

"I'M SOR--ry!"

For a brief and embarrassing second all goes silent, and I'm yelling at the poor man again. My voice drops off at the end. I hand him the money, mumble my thanks, and try to escape with some dignity, but of all things, he doesn't want to accept the money. Oh, the humiliation! He really is a good guy. Now, what do I do?

"You have to take it," I say, "You have to" and I force the money into his hands. "I thank him again, and again, stumbling over my words as if I've never encounter the English language before. I'm a sorry sight. He graciously accepts on behalf of his workers. He will buy them a treat for their hard work. They have been there all day without anything to eat.

Suddenly, I don't feel so stupid. I'm humbled. Here these men are, working their tails of, so to speak, without having had so much as a crumb for their troubles.

They could have stolen the phone, spent a fortune on phone calls, pawned it off for money, etc. But they chose to call me, a stranger, and return the phone to its owner.

I went home a better person. I even let a few people in when they tried to nudge my car off the road. I didn't get angry once. Dignity has returned in small amounts. The small act of kindness has made a huge difference in my outlook on the day.

So, of course, it doesn't stop there. The instant I get home. The phone rings. I almost break my fingers, pushing the buttons on the alarm system so it won't screech at me.

It's my husband, for real this time. Panic has set in. He has realized he's missing an appendage, well almost an appendage. I reassure him. I have the phone. Guess where he is? In the building I have just come from to rescue his phone! He's been there the whole time. Naturally. Needless to say, we have a good laugh. And he goes out to thank the good Samaritan again.

My faith in humanity has been restored once again and my family lets me have the whole night to work on my book. How is that for an amazing turn of events?

2010-04-01T17:29:00.002-06:00

Be on the lookout this April Fools Day!

JK Rowling: The fringe benefits of failure | Video on TED.com

2010-03-29T23:50:00.002-06:00

When I saw this awesome video, I just had to share it with everyone. She is such an inspiration. Enjoy!

JK Rowling: The fringe benefits of failure | Video on TED.com

2010-03-25T11:27:00.006-06:00

You may have caught my panic the other night on Twitter, but I just have to share the episode in more detail today.

You see, I get this really strange phone call from a boy my daughter has been seeing at school.

"Mrs. Stickle, is your daughter at home?"

"No," I reply.

"Great," he says.

Which surprises me by the way. Should I be offended for her? Should I hang up?

Anyway, he continues with, "Would you mind filling the bathtub with water? I'm on the way to ask your daughter to the prom and I need to put something in the tub."

Now, picutre this. I'm standing there holding the phone and a look crosses my face, a mixture of fear and increduality, and I really don't know how to reply, or even if I should. But curiosity gets the better of me, so, I agree. Little do I know what I'm letting myself in for.

Fifteen minutes later, in walks this boy and his friend, carrying a huge bag of fish, and they promptly dump every last one of the tiny, squiggly things in the bathtub. What I didn't realize, until it was almost too late (and everyone had deserted me), was that the drain had a slow leak. So, for whatever reason, maybe stupidity, I check on the wiggly, fin pumping, orange and silver-white creatures. To my dismay, I discover, they are only swimming in about an inch of water, and I'm here to tell you the tub was two-thirds full when I left. I had only been gone for ten minutes!

Scrambling to the kitchen, I grab a plastic pitcher and start re-filling the tub, gallon by gallon, hoping not to shock the silly things unconscious, not to mention the chlorine I'm exposing them to. Though I work as fast as I can, I'm not making any headway, and the poor creatures look up at me with desperate eyes.

"I'm saving you," I say, "honest." But I'm not sure they believe me. Unable to take the frantic, frightened looks from the fish anymore, I finally resort in turning the faucet on, full bore, into the picture so that there is a steady stream of water emptying into the tub. And...for the next two and a half hours, I babysit thirty gold fish, creating an endless stream for them to paddle against. Not the thrill of a lifetime, I can tell you!

I can't leave the bathroom for more than five minutes, which I won't comment on any further, not to mention how many gallons of water I waste trying to keep the squirmy things alive.

Keep in mind,I stayed home for a reason. I was all by myself. I had time to work on my manuscript, in the peace and quiet. Ha!

Needless to say, I almost tackle daughter when she finally gets home. "Hurry," I yell. "Quick. Emergency! The bathroom!"

Who knows what she thought. My hair's kinky curlie, my makeup's dripping down my face, and I'm soaking wet.

We dash down the hall, throw the door wide, and, I cry, "They're all yours," as I dash to my computer. Maybe I can salvage the night by finishing a chapter. And then I add, in full voice, "Oh, be sure and use those stupid fish in your reply. Give 'em back," I say, "Give 'em back! I'm done babysitting!" Notice the exclamation marks?

The next thing I know, one of my daughter's friends comes bounding in with a bucket in one hand and a sieve (that I'm sure her mother uses in the kitchen and didn't know she had) in the other. And for the next hour, I hear things like, "Ooo, ick," and "It got away. Hurry, it's going to die!" punctuated by lots and lots of squeals, laughter, and banging on the sides of the tub.

I giggle, snicker, then out and out snort with laughter. If I'd have known it was possible to entertain two teenage girls with tiny, squirmy fish for more than twenty minutes at home I would have dumped the slimy things in the bathtub myself, many times over. It was pure joy hearing all the laughter.

All in all, the fishies survived, the girls got even, and yes! I finished my chapter!

2010-03-18T12:19:00.006-06:00

I must admit that when I attend a movie, play, musical, opera, or any other venue of entertainment, I go with high expectations. And if those expectations are not met I come away feeling cheated, disappointed, and upset that I've wasted my time. You know how it is. We've all been there. Whether it's a plot gone wrong, characters that are not loveable enough, or hateable, or we refuse to accept the ending, we go away dissatisfied. So it is with books.

If we, as writers, don't take the time to sweat the little stuff, pay attention to details, make sure voice, characterization, plot, grammar, etc. all flow together in timely fashion, we disappoint our readers. It's a tough balancing act. What we see in our heads, sometimes, is difficult to put on paper.

So, here in my blog today, I want to thank all the agents, editors, critique groups, and whomever else who help us, as writers and creators, stay focused, stay energized, and who keep our work balanced with wonderful insights, so that our writing can be the best it can be. If not for you, we would not be able to succeed at our craft. My hats off to you for your tireless efforts on our behalf.

I, for one, don't think we, as a society, use "please" and "thank you" enough, and I can't go another day without saying the latter. So, here's to all who have given of their time to help others succeed, written blogs with amazing tips, critiqued papers, encouraged the writing process, and so forth. You know who you are. Thank you, thank you, thank you!

2010-03-11T11:51:00.001-07:00

A couple of months ago, I received some very helpful tips on blogging from Bree Despain, http://www.breebiesingerdespain.blogspot.com/, and Brodi Ashton, http://www.brodiashton.blogspot.com/, both successful bloggers, writers, and twitterers. The advice was timely and captured my attention, for I was looking for something to help improve my skills.

Though, both, Bree and Brodi, thought some of their advice obvious, it was most enlightening for those of us, who, are new to the whole concept of blogging and twittering.

I took copious notes, read through the handouts they both provided, and tried to implement what I have learned. And walla, a tiny bit of success. My followers have increased as well as the hits to my blog. So I thought I would share a few of Bree's and Brodi's great advice.

Bree said:

1. Join the conversation. Give tips, answer questions. If someone is talking about something you're interested in, jump into the conversation and add to it. Leave comments on other's blog posts. Invite people to comment on your blog. Ask your readers questions to encourage them to comment.
2. Keep it positive. Don't put negative energy out into the world.
3. Be yourself as much as possible, but still be professional. Readers follow your blog/tweets because they want to feel like they know you. And if they feel like they know you, then they'll want to support you. People will love to read personal stories about your life as a writer (especially funny stories).
4. Think of Twitter like a micro blog post.
5. For Published authors: Don't just blog a list of announcements and upcoming events each week. People want content---whether it's a funny story about something that happened to you at a book signing, writing tips, or a contest. You have to give something to your readers if you want them to come back.

Brodi said:

The Twelve Steps to becoming a Blogaholic. a.k.a. The things I do that work for me.

1. Keep a strict Schedule
a. Post schedule on sidebar
b. Always post on those days
c. If you aren't going to post, get a guest post.
2. Add pictures and links
a. So it's not just a large chunk of text.
b. If you mention someone else, or talk about someone else, link to them.
3. Acknowledge comments
4. Comment on other people's blogs.
5. Carry a notebook around for ideas.
6. Don't be afraid to look stupid
a. Some of my most popular blogs have been when I've said something or done something ridiculous, etc.
b. One blog everyone mentions is when my friends and I went to a conference and then walked to dinner. I could've blogged about every little thing that I learned at the conference, but instead I blogged about a spot of red liquid we found on the ground, and how we tried to determine if it was blood, and how we dipped a piece of paper in it to check for viscosity and how we then threw that paper at a lawyer's office for no reason. Believe it or not, this blog made people want to go to the SCBWI conference.
7. Despite looking stupid often, I try not to do anything that is unprofessional
8. Your Author Blog is not a Family Blog
9. Always blog like it might be someone's very first time reading it.
10. Can't think of anything to blog?
a. Just like writer's block, sit down and type.
b. Start typing about what you did last week, and what you have planned for this week. Things will come to you.
c. Consult your notebook
d. Look at your iphone picture folder or your recent photo card. You'll find things to blog about. There's a reason you pulled out your camera to take a picture. Use it. As a related note, take lots of pictures.
e. Have you found anything interesting on the Internet or other people's blogs? Copy it, and make sure to attribute it and link to the original source.
11. Host giveaways or contest.
12. Ask people to follow.

To them, I say, "Thank you." To you, my readers, I say, "Hope you find this advice as useful as I did."

Keep on blogging. I love reading your posts!

2010-03-04T12:04:00.000-07:00

The SCBWI monthly meeting was last night. And what a terrific meeting it was. Sydney Salter Husseman helped to de-mystify the elements of a synopsis. Using examples from her work and personal experience, she took us through the step-by-step process. She showed us what had been successful for her and what hadn't. There were also many in the class who were helpful, shedding light on their own successes as well. The whole evening was very enlightening. I'm so glad I was able to attend.

Besides the query letter, there is nothing more daunting than the synopsis, because one has to write so many different kinds. Some agents and editors want only a paragraph, maybe two; some want a full page. Then there are those who want five or six pages, and still others, who want to see thirty to sixty pages depending on how large your manuscript. But Sydney made it very clear that in order to be a successful writer, one has to master the synopsis. Hundreds and hundreds of books have been sold on the synopsis alone. And because of this, she also told us how valuable it is to write a synopsis before even attempting to write a book--- a type of outline, if you will--- to help the story stay on course without interfering with creativity.

If the agent, editor, and or publisher does not like what he, or she, sees in the synopsis your manuscript may never be read. But before you despair her are a few tips that I gleaned from the instruction last night.

1. The synopsis is a sales pitch.
2. It should make your book come alive.
3. It must have a strong hook---make the first sentence grab the reader.
4. Make it clear who the main character is and why she is so important.
5. What is the main conflict? Make it clear.
6. What is the main character's motivation and goals to over come the main conflict?
7. There must be internal, as well as external conflict. Show the main character's growth so that he or she isn't a flat character.
8. Show voice, give the reader a sense of your voice as a writer.
9. Show the protagonist's voice and also the villain's. Why should the reader care about your main character? Why should he dislike the villain?
10. Make sure to put in key scenes from the book.
11. Be sure to tell how the book ends.
12. Leave the reader with an emotional feeling that draws him in at the end. One he cannot forget, one that haunts him, so that he is dying to read more. The last paragraph is what stays with a reader, good or bad.
13. Pay attention to language. Make every word count. Don't use adverbs or adjectives. Use the right kind of details, but not too many. Don't get off on tangents that are not key to the story.
14. Don't be gimmicky.
15. Don't give the reader any reason to dislike your book.
15. The following are the basic mechanics:
a. Write in third person, present.
b. Use a 12 count, Times New Roman font, something that is easy to read. The agents, editors, and publishers won't take the time to read your synopsis if the font is too hard to decipher.
c. Double space. Don't cheat, it will only tick-off the agent or editor and he or she might just toss it away on principle alone.
d. Set your margins as you would your manuscript, 1 1/4 inch margins on both sides. Again don't cheat, the agent, or editor has read hundreds of synopses. He/she will know where you have set your margins.
e. In the top left corner, state your real name, mailing address, telephone number, and e-mail address. (All single-space)
f. At the top right, type your novel's genre, the book's word count, and the word, Synopsis. (All single-space)
g. Then double-space twice and type your novel's title, centered, all in capital letters.
17. Above all: FOLLOW the submission guidelines stated on the literary agent and editor websites!

I hope you find this information as helpful as I have. I wish you good luck!

2010-02-25T11:13:00.000-07:00

Music has always had such a profound affect on my life. It touches my soul and infiltrates my moods and thoughts. I can be instantly swept up in the ebb and flow of classical music, remembering childhood moments with my father as we listened to Beethoven, Bach, and other classical composers. I love the Aries of opera and musicals like "Madam Butterfly," "Phantom of the Opera," and "Les Miserable." I enjoy a good waltz, fox trot, and the like since my husband and I were on the ballroom dance team together in college. I can see in my mind's eye my Jr. high and high school years while listening to the music of the day, and yes, I have to admit, I am moved by music in movies, feeling fear during intense scenes or sadness when something has gone terribly wrong. I love the beats of contemporary music which my children bring home and blast out in my living room, though sometimes not the lyrics. So, it is no wonder that I use music to write. I have put together different CDs for inspiration and when they are played, I am immediately transplanted to a different place and time. I can envision the landscapes I am writing about, the atmosphere, the people, and the circumstances. I feel the new world all around me. Music is such a powerful tool.

2010-02-11T10:43:00.000-07:00

Cold feet. What a dilemma and I don't mean cold feet in the sense of backing out of something. I literally mean cold feet. I cannot keep my tootsies warm. In the wintertime I have to use a heating pad for about an hour or so before going to bed at night or I can't sleep. I can't walk around without thick socks and shoes on all the time, even in the house, never mind how cold I get without proper insulation in boots when outside. Even in the summertime, I have difficulty shedding my socks and shoes for sandals because the air-conditioning kicks on, instantly freezing my bare feet.

My husband thinks I'm nuts and jokes about it with family and friends, because he's completely opposite. His feet get so hot that the minute he steps over the threshold into our house his shoes come off, and I can hear him spout, "I can't take it any more," as he flings his socks and shoes down the hallway.

He completely uncovers his feet at night and of course wears TIVA's spring, summer, and fall, much to the dismay of our children. If he could get away with it, he'd probably wear sandals year round--- and to further humiliate our children, he'd wear socks with sandals in the wintertime. "Snicker, snicker," and I'd probably let him just to see the reaction from the kids. It's so fun to cause them silly embarrassment just because we are their parents. Payback, right?

So, anyway, I do what I must to stay warm so I don't catch pneumonia and my husband does what he must to cool off. What a pair we make, the neighbors must think we're insane... one bundled to the teeth (feet included of course), the other in the thinnest jackets known to man. Brrrr!

2010-02-04T12:45:00.001-07:00

If anyone has the ideal way to get rid of snakes, please let me know. Spring will be here all too soon, and it never fails that every snake, big or small, within a ten mile radius finds its way into my yard. My neighbors are witnesses to how fast, and how high, I can jump from the lower half of my yard to the front door. Which is quite a feat, given the massive boulders I have to leap over in order to reach the front steps. I could probably make the Olympic team if any coach happened by at the time of my sheer panic.

Many a snake has been deafened by my blood-curdling screams. My family and friends don't quite share in, this, my reasonable fear. They just laugh, point, and make fun of my stark-white face and tell me they're not sure who's more frightened, the snake or me. I can definitely say, without any equivocation whatsoever, "Duh! It's ME!

Note to self: Jot down all the words describing the terror I have for snakes in my notebook to reference later when my characters face a similar horror.

2010-02-02T14:09:00.000-07:00

Outlines and worldbuilding are very important to the process of writing a book, and most especially when creating a series. Though most of the material is never used, the information garnered is essential. These tools are what keep the story on tract, the underlying structures. Thus, influencing how the story unfolds, how the characters interact with one another, and keep the scenes and dialogue true to the storyline, so there's no meandering, no situations that crop up that are not pertinent that could only serve to confuse, frustrate, and bore the reader. Death to any book!

2010-01-27T13:40:00.000-07:00

I never really appreciated how difficult the English language was until I had the fortunate experience of meeting people from different countries and I watched their struggles to master the rules and exceptions to the rules. It's a wonder that anyone can make sense of the language at all. Having said that though, I find it incredible when I can successfully combine simple and complicated sentences and take my readers on a wonder adventure, that they can catch a glimpse of all the dynamic scenes, people, and goings on in my head. Language is an amazing tool of communication.

2010-01-25T11:45:00.000-07:00

I have been reading, "Gotham Writers' Workshop, Writing Fiction, the Practical Guide from New York's Acclaimed Creative Writing School," as I've been revising my manuscript. What an amazing book to have in one's library. As the title suggests, it is definitely a practical guide, giving step by step instruction and exercises that help any author obtain his/her goals. The writing process is broken down so that the book is easily understood and easy to follow--- a must read!

2010-01-11T13:40:00.000-07:00

In interacting with the world today, some times it is easier to sit behind the computer and communicate instead of physically getting out in the world and reaching out to those around us. This past Christmas season, when I took the time to intermingle with my fellow shoppers and stop and watch those hurrying this way and that, my heart was touched by the occasional passerby that helped a crying child by just winking and smiling, or the man that opened a door for a woman in a wheelchair, or the teenager that picked up a package for someone who had accidentally dropped it and didn't know it.

There is still good in the world and it gives me hope.

2010-01-05T17:53:00.000-07:00

May the new year bring you much joy, especially in the little things!

2009-12-30T21:37:00.001-07:00

Facing a new year, I have taken a moment to look back at the past year. Last January, I decided to take the plunge and taking my writing to a new level, take it more seriously. Though I have always loved to write, I now have time to dedicate to my craft. So, I set some lofty goals for myself and I'm proud to say that I have followed through on every one, probably for the first time in my life! (He, he, a little pat on the back!)

I attended several conferences, joined a critique group, joined a couple of writer groups, joined Twitter, subscribed to two writer magazines, submitted some of my work, and dedicated more hours to writing, revising, and seeking advice. And because of all my effort, I have learned more in the past year than I have in the last seven years (all put together). But I must say, it wasn't easy putting myself out there. As a matter of fact it was actually quite scary! A bit on the shy side, I had to swallow down several hard knots lodged in my throat, take a deep breath, extend a shaky hand, all the while feeling my face growing redder by the minute because of nerves, and say, "Hi."

I was pleasantly surprised to find out how gracious and friendly other writers are, and how willing editors and agents are to help--- thank you to all! It's not such a scary place anymore. Though I was turned down, and rightfully so, I might add, I received wonderful critique and so many encouraged me to continue, that they liked my writing, but that I needed a bit more work to get my story up to snuff.

I hope by writing this in my blog, it will give others the courage to also try. I know how frightening it can be to put what you have created out there for others to judge, something that is so near and dear to your heart. You can do it!

So, now, taking a huge gulp of air, I'm preparing myself for the new challenges ahead, fixing my manuscript, perfecting my query letters, and taking the plunge again, submitting.

I'm anxious to get started, anxious for new adventures, both inside my head to be written on the blank page and finding new friends and work in the writing world!

2009-12-23T12:13:00.000-07:00

I hope you have a very Merry Christmas and a Happy New Year too!

2009-12-21T14:45:00.000-07:00

What is your favorite Christmas story? Are you going to share it with loved ones this holiday season? I would love to know what it is. Please share.

2009-12-16T12:14:00.001-07:00

Do you have a favorite Christmas memory? Write it down, expound, and turn it into a wonderful story for all of us to read.

2009-12-15T12:11:00.000-07:00

Yup, I'm finally going to do it. I'm going shopping for Christmas. I put it off as long as I could, but it's getting down to the wire now. So here goes! Check in with you later.

2009-12-12T15:15:00.000-07:00

One of the keys to good writing is read, read, and read some more. If I'm not reading in the genre that I'm tackling at present, I'm reading about writing to improve my writing skills, and reading and revising my manuscript to make sure the story is the best it can be.

There are so many wonderful books, websites, and blogs to help educate, inspire, and guide. I'm constantly amazed at the information available and the willingness of others to share their knowledge. It's awesome!

On the right side of this blog, I have included several websites and blogs that I have found most helpful. Check them out. I think you will too.

2009-12-10T16:55:00.001-07:00

This week has been great. I took advantage of the weather and put my fingers to the keyboard uninterrupted. I do believe things are finally coming together. A little more tweaking and I can finally grind the story changes out. I'm really excited to have such large blocks of time to myself. What a luxury!

2009-12-04T13:54:00.000-07:00

Some days it is so hard to write, too many interruptions, juices not flowing, discouragement. That's when I have to slog through it, push the work, motivate myself. Sometimes, these kinds of days are the most rewarding even if I only come up with a few paragraphs or ideas. Sometimes, this is when my greatest work is achieved because I just kept at it, just kept telling myself not to quit.

2009-11-25T15:48:00.001-07:00

Have a Happy Thanksgiving everyone!

2009-11-24T15:04:00.000-07:00

Sorry, my Internet service has been down. I only have a couple of minutes before it goes down again. Just wanted to check in and let my viewers know that I haven't forgotten them. I'll check in again when everything is up and running smoothly.

---Gwen

2009-11-19T13:40:00.000-07:00

I have not been able to post anything the last few days because I have been so busy working on my outline--- to fix the huge flaw in my manuscript. It was an extremely daunting task until I stumbled across the books "First Draft in 30 Days," and "From First Draft to Finished Novel," both written by, Karen S. Wiesner.

I happened to get on Twitter for a few minutes when I saw: jessicastrawser RT: @kmnickell Download free story-building worksheets here--great for #NaNoWriMo writers! http://tinyurl.com/yd3p7cn. I clicked on the website and was so impressed that I ran to the bookstore and bought Karen Wiesner's books. And, talk about helpful, wow! I think I will make it through this tough revamping much easier with the guidance from these two books. They are a must have if anyone is contemplating writing a novel or repairing one, like I am. If I had had these two books before I started the series, it would have saved me so much grief, so much rewriting.

She compares the writing process to a builder following a blueprint and building a house.

Here is just a taste of these wonderful books:

"If your character, setting, and plot are truly cohesive, writing your story will take your breath away. It'll fill your every waking thought, infuse you with constant inspiration and the desperate need to enter the irresistible world you've created to see what happens next. You won't want to leave it--- who needs to sleep and eat? It will no doubt even affect your moods as you feel everything your characters do. You may find yourself muttering odd things that make sense only to you. Friends will comment on the faraway look in your eyes. Those who know you well will surely understand that you're off in writers' la-la land again--- best not to disturb you until you're bursting to tell them what you've discovered. These things are what make writing both crazy and wonderful.

"My hope is that 'From First Draft to Finished Novel' will give you a solid plan of action from start to finish through in-depth examples and exercises, and that the leave-no-stone-unturned checklists will help you execute the plan in your own writing. This layering process sets up the stages necessary to complete a cohesive, irresistible dream-novel that is hauntingly unforgettable to everyone who reads it."

These two books go hand in hand with the process. I have already achieved so much more than I would have, had I gone it alone. Try it, it works!

2009-11-16T22:38:00.000-07:00

Great Conference last weekend. It was great to meet so many wonderful authors, the editor, Elizabeth Law, and literary agent, Kendra Marcus. The advice I received was priceless. They all set me on a better track. Though I have a lot of work to do, I'm excited for the challenge and I think the series I'm working on will be so much better.

Thank you, Kristyn Crow, for all your support and kind words. You are an awesome author. Love your website and blog. Check them out everyone. Good luck with your new adventures, Kristyn.

2009-11-13T12:07:00.000-07:00

So, I'm about to embark on an adventure in learning... a three hour workshop in writing, writing, writing. It will be interesting to see what comes of it. I'm looking forward to being inspired, enlightened, and most of all energized. I love getting together with fellow writers. Their energy is catchy.

Tomorrow is an all-day conference, where I will have the opportunity to hear from and mingle with an agent, editor, and published authors. To glean from their experiences and what is expected in this hard, economic climate will be most helpful.

For those writers out there who have not taken the opportunity to attend a conference in their area, I would encourage you to do so. Do a little investigating and you will be surprised what you can find. The workshops and conferences range anywhere from $50 or a couple of thousand depending on how many days and what is involved. Start small, in this economic climate it is wise to do so, get your feet wet, and when you are ready take the plunge and attend extensive conference. You will be amazed what contacts you can make and the information you'll obtain, plus, it's great fun. I have to admit it's a little intimidating at first, but you'll soon realize that everyone is in the same boat. And then, there's the big conferences in New York and California to consider. How fabulous would they be to attend? Maybe some day!

2009-11-09T11:14:00.000-07:00

There is so much information on the web that sometimes it is hard to sift through everything, especially with the limited time writers have anyway. But, let me tell you, it is worth the effort. At the touch of a few fingers, you can find out about anything you are having trouble with, be it, query letters, revision, writer's block, etc., everything from A to Z in the writing, publishing, agenting world. Do yourself a favor and take a few minutes a day to browse. Call it your business time. You will be amazed at what you can accomplish or find.

On this site, I have collected a few blogs I have found helpful, and, I continue to add to the list when I find new ones that are pertinent. Feel free to look. I hope you find them as useful as I have. Good hunting for whatever it is you are looking for!

2009-11-03T11:17:00.000-07:00

So many of us authors struggle with platform. Here is some good advice that I found:

In the book, "Get Known Before the Book Deal," Christina Katz says, "The word platform simply describes all the ways you are visible and appealing to your future, potential, or actual readership. Platform development is important not only for authors; it's also crucial for aspiring and soon-to-be authors. Your platform includes your Web presence, any public speaking you do, the classes you teach, the media contacts you've established, the articles you've published, and any other means you currently have for making your name and your future books known to a viable readership. If others already recognize your expertise on a given topic or for a specific audience or both, then that is your platform. Long story short: Your platform communicates your expertise to others, so you don't have to."

2009-10-30T12:41:00.000-06:00

Boy, the life of a writer is so fun! If I'm not writing, I'm reading about writing, twittering about writing and getting advice, begging others to read my manuscript, submitting to editors and agents, or reading my favorite books. It doesn't get better than this!

And on that note, I was reading the book, "The Creative Writer's Companion," by Stanley J. Corwin, and found this:

"Your idea may be the first, or the last, but it must be the best and the most enduring, and be the right book, for the right market, at the right time."

Timing is everything, to say the least.

2009-10-28T11:33:00.001-06:00

While on a quick unexpected trip yesterday, I took the time to read a section in the book, entitled, "The Successful Novelist," by David Morrell. On page 105, he says, "I recommend that beginning novelists go to a large book store once a month, the kind that has a huge section of novels marked 'new releases.' Read the first sentence/paragraph/page of every one. Don't pay attention to the type of novel it is. Mystery, romance, thriller, mainstream. Makes no difference. What you're trying to identify is writing that, because of tone or incident or whatever, grabs your attention. You'll be amazed at how many first pages don't manage the job. But we're not interested in those. What we care about are the ones that do grab our attention. Without imitating, use them as examples. Raise your standards."

As soon as I could, I headed to the nearest book store! Wow! Enlightenment!

2009-10-26T11:13:00.000-06:00

The other day, in reading "Writing and Selling the YA Novel," by K.L. Going, I picked up this wonderful tidbit:

"It might be helpful to think of editing the way scientists think of the scientific method. When the first draft of a book is done, try to:

-observe your work impassively, doing your best to eliminate any emotional involvement that might make you defensive to change

-describe your own reactions

-predict how others might react

-exert control in order to eliminate alternatives that don't belong

-experiment to see which choices work best

-test your hypotheses about character, action, setting, and point of view. Do they really work the way you thought they would?

Most of us will need to experiment again and again in order to get things right. Just as scientists don't expect to prove a theory on their first try, very few writers know how their entire book should be written the first time through. It's necessary to see which paths work and which don't."

This is so important to take into consideration while going through the editing process.

This is such a good book to have in your library, very helpful.

2009-10-23T13:50:00.000-06:00

I would encourage anyone that has been bitten by the writing bug to join Twitter, aka see the button on my blog. There you will find writers, agents, editors, and the like giving each other advice and encouragement. There are chats you can join, so that you can get answers to the many questions you undoubtedly have, receive great quotes that inspire, and connect with websites and blogs you probably didn't know were out there. It's amazing the wealth of information at your fingertips. It's such a great tool, if used it right.

But don't get discouraged with it, it takes time. I almost gave up a time or two, until I started learning a few of the ropes, started clicking on the options, and dove in. And I've only tapped into a fraction of what's available.

If you think of your writing as a business, you need to work hard and put yourself out there. I know, I know, it's difficult to do. But take it from an expert, who hides behind bookcovers, and has only begun to figure that out. It's worth it!

2009-10-21T21:10:00.000-06:00

Inspiration can come from anywhere. Have pen and paper handy at all times!

2009-10-20T10:55:00.000-06:00

Though it's hard to keep so many things going at the same time, it's a good idea to Twitter, blog, etc. because there is so much good information and contacts that you can make in doing so.

2009-10-16T09:36:00.000-06:00

In a marvelous book called, "The Complete Hanbook of Novel Writing," by Meg Leder, Jack Heffron, and the editors of Writer's Digest, Stephanie Kay Bendelis is quoted as saying:

"The difference between a good story and a great one is often the depth to which the author examines the characters who people the pages. Beginning writers are sometimes bewildered when they are told their characters need more development or that they haven't really allowed the reader to 'know' these people. In my teaching I have discovered that a good way to make sure your characters are fully developed is to think of them as four-dimensional persons."

This is very good advice. I have heard so many times that it is better not to create flat, one dimensional characters, all good--- no flaws, or even all bad--- with no redeeming qualities.

2009-10-14T11:34:00.001-06:00

What are you fears and aspirations? What keeps you from doing what you want to do most? What motivates you?

2009-10-12T11:52:00.000-06:00

Invision where you want to be in a month, a year, in five years, or ten, then set your goals accordingly and your plan will materialize. By giving yourself direction you will see your dreams fulfilled.

2009-10-08T11:55:00.000-06:00

The SCWBI meeting last night was great. If you are at all interested in children's books, I would encourage you to attend the free meetings. They are very informative and fun. It's a great way to get to know other writers in your community. It's a national organization that is easily asscessed in your area. Check out their website.

2009-10-07T13:47:00.000-06:00

I just joined a new critique group that is going to be great! These are all people that went to the same conference with me, and we seem to have the same goals. I'm so excited to get feedback.

2009-10-05T11:26:00.000-06:00

Sorry, my computer went down for a few days and I wasn't able to post anything. I've been working hard on the second book. It's been so fun delving into the mystical and magical again.

2009-09-28T13:52:00.000-06:00

How is everyone this fine Monday morning? Are you taking good care of yourself? What do you do to instill good self-esteem in yourself, your children, your grandchildren, spouse, etc.? I would love for you to post your ideas! We live in a very difficult world and we need to take care of one another.

2009-09-23T22:17:00.000-06:00

I'm really looking forward to attending the SCBWI mini conference. I always learn so much and meet great people.

2009-09-22T16:16:00.001-06:00

The wonderful weather is so hard to resist. I just had to take advantage and write outside---- oh the distractions!

2009-09-17T23:32:00.000-06:00

A query letter and synopsis are so hard to write. What to include, oh me, oh my. Will I peak the editor or agent's interest? Will they be impressed? It's scary, it's (h)daunting, and it's not even Halloween.

2009-09-16T21:59:00.000-06:00

All finished. Now I have to get up the courage to submit, crossing my fingers!

2009-09-14T21:44:00.000-06:00

How's everyone doing out there? I just came up for air. Still working on revisions. I have to finish this week.

2009-09-09T22:21:00.000-06:00

Almost there!

2009-09-04T13:30:00.001-06:00

On the home stretch!!!

2009-09-01T11:24:00.000-06:00

Pushing hard to meet my deadline... kind of exciting!

2009-08-29T12:13:00.000-06:00

It's fun to see who is twittering and what's going on in their lives. I'm also finding so many friends on Facebook, that I have lost over the years.

2009-08-27T13:15:00.000-06:00

I only have one hundred pages to go. Yippee!

2009-08-24T16:29:00.000-06:00

I loved living in Norphendril these past few days. It's a wonderful place to escape to.

2009-08-21T17:18:00.000-06:00

We went on our last vacation this summer and had a great time! I was able to sneak in a few hours of revision so that when I got back there wouldn't be so much to do. I can't believe the summer is gone. I'm not sure I'm ready to dig in yet, how about you?

2009-08-14T12:13:00.000-06:00

One of my favorite books is "The Word Museum," by Jeffrey Kacirk. There are some incredible words that we have forgotten over time. I would love to use blutterbunged in a sentence, but no one would know what I was talking about. It means to confound, overcome by surprise. Or take fubbery for instance, it means deceit. Don't you just love those words? They just tickle my tongue.

2009-08-12T12:51:00.000-06:00

Deadlines, deadlines, deadlines. What will I do? Late nights, I expect. I can't believe the summer is almost gone. I blinked!

2009-08-06T11:36:00.001-06:00

I have had so much fun the last few weeks really digging into my manuscript and weeding out the excess. I've never had this much time, all at once, to get down to the nitty-gritty. It's been heaven. Thank goodness for fast food and a patient husband!

2009-08-04T12:25:00.000-06:00

I was reading the book, "Writing the Great American Romance Novel," by Catherine Lanigan--- after all, there should be romance in every novel, don't you think--- and came across this amazing piece of advice:

"Taking the ordinary meeting and creating that haunting moment that stays in the reader's mind for weeks, and hopefully forever, is where the magic of your talent is revealed."

That says it all!

2009-08-01T14:27:00.000-06:00

Who is your favorite person, character, in a series or book? Why?

2009-07-29T12:20:00.000-06:00

Who is your favorite author? Is there more than one? Do they write fiction, non-fiction, history, biographies, mysteries, romance, intrigue, YA, Adult? Who would you recommend I add to my library, and why?

2009-07-25T16:53:00.000-06:00

I was sitting at my desk, re-reading my manuscript for the hundredth time, and I realized something. This girl that I am writing about is really cool. There are so many challenges she's going to have to face, so many difficult situations she has to overcome, that I feel for her. Odd huh? Since I am the one creating her. I can picture her in my mind, actually see her, and my heart goes out to her.

I can't wait to see the reaction from my readers when they find out what happens.

2009-07-23T12:13:00.000-06:00

As I am sure with most authors, writing is like breathing. It is something I just have to do. The stories inside me are begging to come out. Most of the time, I can't write them fast enough, but once in awhile there is a very special tale, one that takes a little more thought, worry, and effort. That is the case with the series I am working on. The story is there, the people, the situations, but they, the story, the people, the situations, want to be carefully portrayed. The words need to be just so, the descriptions clear, vivid, and perfect. Each character reveals themselves in unique ways. Each has their own story and knows their importance in the protagonist's life. They come to me, one by one, introducing themselves, and tell me what I am to write. They help me see the world they live in and what they are to do in order to help or hinder, to love or hate.

It has been an amazing experience. I hope that one day, when "The Enchanted Ring," the first book in the series of "Norphendril", is published, that you will find these people just as intriguing, that you fall in love with them, live with them, can't be without them, as I have.

2009-07-20T13:36:00.000-06:00

The book, "Stephen King On Writing," was recommended to me by several people, the first, being my brother-in-law. Wow! Great book! There is so much useful information that it's hard to choose which passage is my favorite. There's just too many. But this one I had to include on my blog; it struck a chord.

"Whenever I see a first novel dedicated to a wife (or a husband), I smile and think, There's someone who knows. Writing is a lonely job. Having someone who believes in you makes a lot of difference. They don't have to make speeches. Just believing is usually enough."

Ditto!

2009-07-18T12:09:00.000-06:00

Sometimes the naming of people in my stories comes with ease, but sometimes finding just the right ones eludes me. So, I purchased, "Character Naming Sourcebook." In the first chapter, the author, Sherrilyn Kenyon, gives ten major guidelines which I find quite helpful.

1. Capture the persona.

2. Choose a name in keeping with your character's heritage and personality and/or trade.

3. Make the name harmonious.

4. Keep the character's name consistent with his or her time period.

5. Keep the character's social status in mind.

6. Use nicknames.

7. Vary the names of the characters.

8. Remember the genre.

9. If you choose a name that breaks the rules, explain it.

10. Avoid the names others have made famous.

Not only does Ms. Kenyon give advice, but she includes the meaning of the names and includes the origin, such as Latin, Greek, French, etc. It was fun learning about my own name.

2009-07-14T17:28:00.000-06:00

Query letters are tough. Every agent wants something different. Getting a handle on what each one is looking for is difficult, but there are two things that are consistent: a new voice, and the hook.

On the front of the book, "Hooked," written by Les Edgerton, it says:

"Write fiction that grabs readers at page one and never lets them go."

SO TRUE! If you don't hook your readers from the get go and take them on a wild ride, they may never pick up another book you have written.

2009-07-10T13:25:00.000-06:00

I love writing for YA, probably because I am a kid at heart, and like most adults, long for the energy that I have lost and the outlook on life. When you get to my age some of the magic disappears in life. I love trying to recreate it, to remember.

Here's some good advice from the book "Writing and Selling the YA Novel" by K.L. Going.

"The important thing to remember when creating your plot is to make sure there is something that ties everything together from beginning to end."

When I read this I went right to my novel and checked to see if I had incorporated this principle. It wasn't as clear as I thought it should be and so worked it in.

2009-07-08T11:56:00.001-06:00

The revision of my first chapter is finally finished. Hooray! Now on to the second.

I found a very interesting quote that I have to share. It comes from the book "Your first Novel," by Ann Rittenberg and Laura Whitcomb. New authors should have this book in their libraries.

In chapter one:

"Your idea might be a character you want to follow, a setting that haunts you, or a scene that keeps playing in your mind. A writer gets ideas from everywhere--- by watching people pass in the crosswalks, by elaborating on childhood memories, by retelling nightmares, or by taking pieces of history and contemplating alternate outcomes. Inside you there is already the seed of a story that drives you to move closer to the fire and speak. Give it a name. Not a title--- that comes later. Just name it, so it will know its master."

This hit me with such power. Thank you Ann and Laura.

2009-07-07T11:43:00.000-06:00

Well, I'm back from a wonderful fourth of July holiday with family and friends; it couldn't have been better.

Today I came across a wonderful bit of advice I just had to share from the book "Finding Your Writer's Voice," written by Thaisa Frank and Dorothy Wall, which is an amazing book if you are trying to find voice.

"This is very important to remember. You can learn the concepts of craft by taking classes and reading books. But you won't know how to work with them and they won't have concrete meaning unless you discover them in the outpourings of your own voice."

This is so true. I have read many books, have attended several classes and conferences, but nothing really clicked until I caught the vision of voice. It was always this mystical thing until one day there was an ahha moment and suddenly my writing was different.

2009-06-30T17:20:00.000-06:00

So much to do and so little time to do it in and so little money to do it with. I wish I could get to all the writers conferences in our area, let alone in New York and California. I learn so much while I am there, besides meeting all the authors, editors, and agents.

*** Here's a thought I wanted to pass on to my fellow authors:

I've been reading "How to Write Funny," edited by John B. Kachuba, which I highly recommend, and in the book I came across this, written by Robin Hemley:

"Sometimes, too, you find yourself in a situation that starts off serious but becomes absurd. When this happens, take it as a gift and write it down."

Amen! So many times I've tried to remember funny situations to include in my stories, but because I hadn't taken the time to write them down they were lost. So I have started carrying a small journal with me wherever I go. It has helped tremendously.

2009-06-26T13:54:00.000-06:00

Are there any suggestions from you seasoned writers out there for new writers like me? I would love to hear them. Please share your incites.

2009-06-14T16:31:00.000-06:00

Just back from a fabulous writer's conference, I'm ready to dive into my manuscript. Thanks to Ann Cannon the prospect of revising my book, once again, is less daunting. A wonderful presenter, she is also a great columnist and an author of children's books.

I definitely have to thank Lael Littke for the amazing suggestions she gave our writing group. She's an inspiration.

Thanks to Alane Ferguson for pumping me up. After your presentation, I am excited to delve into my book. And thank you Dandi Mackall for explaining voice. I think I finally got it! You are a marvel, 460 books. Wow! And Carol Lynch Williams, you are always a crack up--- your advice has helped my writing tremendously.

Well, back to Norphendril. Revisions, revisions, revisions!